When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, it is to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get beckon the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return. How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that there were the things that helped you grow. Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love 'coz every time we do, we get hurt, and then I figured that's why it's called falling in love. In the pursuit for that so-called true, perfect & everlasting love, many people choose to give up on what they presently own and they choose to forgo the opportunities that comes along…Until when they truly lose what they have, then they realise that they have not only given up their happiness but they have done something that they may regret forever.. How long does it take for someone to realise that.. Love doesn’t have to be perfect; Love may not be everlasting but what’s most important is the faith, trust & determination you have to make that relationship lasts... The more hopes and promises you put into a relationship, the heavier your burden will be and the more disappointed you will feel when it doesn’t work out... Try not to judge, measure or compare love, for love is something that nobody can truly grasp or understand... When in love, you may feel like on the top of the world and being the happiest person ever alive... When out of love, your world may come crushing down on you and you truly feel that you are better off dead…Suddenly, loneliness, pain and hurt is all that you have left in your empty heart... Love is volatile, fragile and can change as easily... So set love free and love without reservations, restrictions, expectations or wanting anything in return... This way you may truly find love... It may not turn out to be the love you wanted but love is to give, compromise, accommodate and to accept without any conditions... So never limit yourself to only look for love by your standards... Don’t hide from love when it comes knocking on your door, cherish it & appreciate it while it’s with you. Some people may never recover from the wounds inflicted by love... Especially when you gave your heart and soul to someone and that person just stepped onto it and throws it back right in your face... Then, they walk away without even looking back, while you writhed in sorrow and desperation, trying very hard to get your life back cause your world has ceased to exist without that person... Life and love is unfair... Many a times, we aren’t given a choice. But we can choose to let go and move on, remember that letting go is painful but holding on in vain is even more so... For whatever good things or luck that comes your way, enjoy it and treat it as a surprise but don’t hold on too tight to it. For whatever bad things or misfortune that has befallen upon you, don’t despair or be too sad, for it may turn out to be a blessing in disguise. Lastly, be contented with all that you have now. Cherish even those little things that may seem unimportant to you now, because they may be those things that you never realise its importance until you lose them... Do not be envious of what others have or lament over what you don’t have, because you never know what troubles those “seemingly good” things may bring..
Forever Alynna
The Laydee
Preferable to be called as Lynn.
I'm 26 this year. Old for the number but still young at heart. ;)
23rd July 1982, is the day i was born. I'm quiet, shy, soft & relenting. I treasure everyone around me. I accept the fate that lies upon me. I prefer to be me rather than what others want me to be. I wanna lead a normal respectful life but the other half of me just wanna be wild!
